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There’s an old saying: You can tell someone’s character by how they treat people who can’t give them anything in return. 

We’ve all seen this play out in real life. Like when you’re at a restaurant and someone is rude to the server but charming to everyone else—it’s a red flag. I’ve been in that situation before, and I knew instantly: this guy isn’t someone I want to do business with.

Here’s where it gets interesting…

I’ve noticed that how we interact with AI can reveal something about our character, too. Of course, I don’t think AI has feelings or awareness of how it’s being spoken to, but I still say please and thank you. Why? Because it’s not just about the AI—it’s about training my own heart.

I’m about to introduce you to Casper and Cheryl Stockham. They take this “training your own heart” thing to a place where it really hits home… in our marriages!

Because you’re here, I suspect we’ve got something deep in common…

That we want to be the person who is wonderfully gracious with everyone, not just those who can help us, impress us, or offer something in return. It’s about maintaining integrity in how we move through the world.

Whether it’s a server, a stranger, or yes, even AI, every interaction is an opportunity to show kindness, respect, and gratitude.

And you know what? Those habits spill over into everything. How we treat the seemingly "small" things says everything about how we’ll show up for the "big" things.

So, here’s the question I’ve been reflecting on: How are you showing up in the little moments? Are you training your heart to be gracious and kind, even when it feels like no one is watching?

The Hot Tub Epiphany: Unlocking Business Brilliance Through Personal Connection

Picture this: A man, exhausted from another failed relationship, sits in his car outside his apartment. He's ready to throw in the towel on love. Little does he know, he's about to start a journey that will not only transform his personal life but also birth a thriving business empire.

Meet Casper Stockham.

Once a self-proclaimed mess in the romance department, Casper's love life was a series of face-plants and false starts. Rock bottom. Then, a moment of surrender. He told God, "I'm done forcing this. If the right person is out there, bring her to me."

Two weeks later, enter Cheryl.

Plot twist: She hated him.

Cocky. Arrogant. A walking red flag. But Casper, armed with newfound clarity and determination, wasn't deterred. He asked her out. She reluctantly agreed. One movie and a three-hour conversation later, Casper knew he'd found his match. Cheryl? Not so much.

It took two more weeks of Casper's relentless pursuit (and probably some divine intervention) before Cheryl saw the potential. Fast forward 45 days, and they were married.

Whirlwind? Absolutely. Reckless? Perhaps. But 22 years later, they're still going strong.

This isn't just a cute meet-cute story. It's the foundation of a multi-faceted business empire that's revolutionizing relationship coaching and Christian broadcasting.

From their rocky start, Casper and Cheryl built I Am Love Builders, a platform that's part marriage counseling, part TV production, and all innovation. They've cracked the code on turning mushy feelings into marketable content, and they're not afraid to get their hands dirty in the process.

Their secret weapon? The MVP program. No, not Most Valuable Player. Most Valuable Partner.

Genius. Simple. Effective.

The concept? Stop trying to "fix" your partner and focus on becoming the best version of yourself. Novel idea, right? Apparently, it's working. Couples are eating it up faster than a tub of Rocky Road after a breakup.

But Casper and Cheryl aren't content with just coaching from the sidelines. They've gone full tech-savvy on us, launching an app that brings their relationship wisdom to the masses. Free e-books, love assessments, video trainings - they're practically giving away the keys to the kingdom of marital bliss.

And for those who want the full VIP treatment? They offer luxury marriage retreats. Think gourmet meals, exotic locations, and a week of intensive coaching with the dynamic duo themselves. It's like couples therapy meets five-star vacation.

But here's where it gets really interesting. Casper's best business ideas? They don't come from brainstorming sessions or late nights at the office. Nope. They come from his hot tub.

You heard that right. The hot tub.

While most of us are binge-watching Netflix or scrolling mindlessly through social media, Casper's out there communing with the stars, letting the bubbles work their magic on his entrepreneurial brain. The MVP program? Born in the hot tub. Their TV show concept? Hot tub inspiration.

It's enough to make you wonder if hot tubs should be a tax-deductible business expense.

But Casper doesn't stop there. He's instituted "Gone Fishing Fridays," blocking off an entire day each week to cast his line and clear his mind. It's not about catching fish, he insists. It's about catching ideas.

The result of all this outdoor reflection? A thriving business that's changing lives and a partnership that's stood the test of time.

So what can we learn from Casper's unconventional approach to business and life?

First, don't underestimate the power of a strong personal foundation. Casper's business success is intrinsically linked to his relationship success. They're two sides of the same coin.

Second, embrace technology, but don't let it consume you. Use it as a tool for growth, both in business and in your personal life.

Third, give before you take. Casper and Cheryl's generous approach to sharing free resources has built trust and established them as experts in their field.

Fourth, make time for outdoor reflection. Your next big idea might be waiting for you outside the confines of your office.

Finally, seek balance. Success in business doesn't have to come at the cost of personal relationships. In fact, as Casper's story shows, the two can actually fuel each other.

The bottom line? Relationships matter. In business and in life. So the next time you're feeling stuck or uninspired, take a page from Casper's book. Step away from your desk. Take a dip in a hot tub. Go fishing. You never know - your next million-dollar idea might be just a cast away.

And who knows? You might just make your most important relationship better along the way.

Connect with the Stockhams to explore innovative ways to strengthen your relationships and discover the transformative power of faith-based coaching! Check out their free app with tons of helpful tools you can use to save or make your relationship even better.

Hey there, Imposter Syndrome sufferers!

Yep, you.

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